I got an email a few days ago with a question very current, but that left me thinking. Why are we so hell-bent on talking and proposing marriage as a bond of two people in love? What is really the marriage?
I looked at several couples I know who take several years of marriage, among whom I include my parents who are over 50 years together, and also to those who have upcoming plans include marriage.
And I got to travel and establish a commonality between all of them.
1. Attraction. This was originally given. At first, when looked cruaron something, something noticed and connected. A protective gaze, a tenderness, a sensual, enveloping emotion, interest or a grace were recognized in each other and cried her whole being will choose them as partners. Were chosen.
2. Exclusivity. While a decision came to life, flooded their stocks certainty: the desire to be alone with her. No one else would take that place, nothing could replace.
3. Eternity. Another belief appears not know where, wanting to be always with her. An irrevocable sense of time disappears, the past is lost and this will dissolve the future.
4. prodigality. O Altruism in the literal sense of the word. "I just want your happiness" "Your happiness is my happiness." It's the most reliable sign of human love, the so-called self-giving love. No one's happiness at the expense of another, it would be a disguised selfishness. The other is the one that counts and nothing else. Wanting their welfare at the expense even of his own immolation.
5. Fertility . Both are confident that there will be a harvest of that love which creates, develops and extends the life that greening multiplies and two deserts. The end of the course, are the fruits mature they feed. One or more children, an environment, a corporation, community-or whatever-where others come to nurture and shelter to continue the future. A life that is renewed. A world that keeps turning.
know that for many of these steps may be wrong, that does not fit your plans and aspirations. About half stayed, others jump from one to another, others do not want to start the process.
the idea is just to think ... I think of it, although I know I never will initiate these five steps ...
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